Forgiveness, Part 5
This is part of an ongoiong counselor’s session on forgiving. The author is a friend of mine. This question is one often asked and discussed and worth the reading time, approx five minutes only.
Do I have to tell the person who hurt me that I have forgiven him? I don’t ever want to see or talk to that person again. He’s scary, and although I’ve forgiven him, I want nothing more to do with him.
This is a “that depends” kind of question, and there is more than one answer.
Sometimes, the person we need to forgive is already dead. Perhaps it was an abusive or extremely critical parent that you have finally been able to forgive; however, that person is already gone, so there is no need to confront.
In some cases, your process of forgiving someone else is just between you and God. If you are convinced that telling a person you have forgiven him will do nothing but bring more pain down on you, then no, I don’t think you need to face that person. Forgiveness, you’ll remember, is simply…
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